Dear Black Woman, Forgive the Black Man

The world seems so divided at the moment with the injustice of black lives, the unlawful, unconstitutional immunity of police officers that take those lives, and the contrast of foundational upbringings. I refuse to say the only difference between “Black Lives Matter” and “All Lives Matter” is opinionated, when it is painfully obvious it’s rooted in generational racism and white superiority. With the world so divided, the one thing that is supposed to be in balance and harmony, is the black man and the black woman. There are so many quotes and posts on the internet about how (black) men should start taking responsibility for their lack of manhood, and their mistreatment of you, among many other things, which easily creates a never-ending shift in blame without any intent of resolution.

If we take a step back and look at generational history, who’s fault is it that you two aren’t united? Women, do you feel the men are to blame here for their lack of fight and uproar against the white man? Or do you feel women are being forced at fault for not standing by him during the fight? Well, what if neither one of you are to blame? Have you ever entertained the idea that you both were used, manipulated and pinned against one another by someone else, for personal gain and benefit? Someone who’s entire purpose was to divide you two and break you both down mentally, spiritually, and physically so that you wouldn’t disobey, and they could sleep at peace knowing that not only are you both demoralized and terrified, but that their teachings you would pass down by the generations.

In order for you two to unite and shift the cosmic balance, you must forgive him.

I know, I know, why do you have to be the one to forgive? Why do you have to be the one to break the curses, and make the first move? Well Queen, to put it simply, everything began with YOU!!! The white man knew just how powerful and godly the black woman was, so he used you to destroy the black man. This is why there is no fault between you two. It isn’t his fault you haven’t felt protected or loved by him for centuries. It isn’t his fault that he is no longer your leader or trusted by you to guide your family. It isn’t his fault that he hasn’t been able to shower you with adoration, honor, praise and worship, and instead have been degraded, disrespected and dehumanized.


The white man stripped him of his essence and his manhood, as he violently beat, burned, mutilated, sodomized and literally tore him apart by his limbs, as you and your child(ren) were forced to bear witness. This purposely and strategically left you unprotected, vulnerable, terrified and mentally paralyzed. He was psychologically tortured as he had to also bare witness to the rape and torment of not only his wife, but that of his daughters, mother, aunts, sisters, and even women he’s never met. The white man decided this wasn’t enough. That’s right. You being forced to watch the man you love, your father, your brothers, your sons, being raped and tortured wasn’t enough for these people. Some of you acted out, rebelled and ran away, started fires, killed their animals, and left their crops in the field for too long, eliminating their chance for maximized profits. This had the white man very angry, and afraid to sleep at night for the fear of an uprising. So let’s dive deep into the muddy waters of strategy and execution.

William Lynch: The Untold “Story” 1712
Most everyone has heard of Willie Lynch and the infamous Willie Lynch Letter. But how much have you actually read? To what extent are you aware of the lengths taken to enslave the black mind and body for the financial and social benefit of the white man? What about this paragraph below?

“I have a foolproof method for controlling your Black slaves. I guarantee every one of you that if it is installed correctly, it will control the slaves for at least 300 years. I have outlined a number of DIFFERENCES among the slaves, and I take these differences and make them bigger. I use FEAR, DISTRUST, and ENVY for control purposes. Don’t forget, you must pitch the OLD BLACK MALE vs. the YOUNG BLACK MALE and the YOUNG BLACK MALE against the OLD BLACK MALE. You must use the Dark Skin Slaves vs. the Light Skin Slaves and the Light Skin Slaves vs. the Dark Skin Slaves. You must use the Female vs. the Male, and the Male vs. the Female. You must also have your white servants and overseers Distrust all Blacks, but it is necessary your slaves trust and depend on us. They must love, respect, and trust only us.”

Have you ever read or heard this? The paragraph above was considered a “Kit with Keys to Control” that they taught to their wives and children. Lynch declared that if they’re consistent, never miss an opportunity, and use these tools intensively for one year, the slaves, as he stated, will “remain perpetually distrustful”. This was something that was intricately thought about and calculated with precise details. Integrating controlling methods and fear into the subconscious repertoire in those at a young age is a technique used for brainwashing, along with monopolization of perception. Which includes four steps:

(1) the abuser keeps your attention on them with the manipulating idea that they actually care for you and wouldn’t know what to do without you; (2) the abuser says things that make you retreat inward to find the problem with you, even though there aren’t any; (3)the abuser removes anything from your world they cannot control and finally,(4) they make it impossible for you to participate in activities that are deemed “off-limits’ to you.

Any of that sound familiar? Any of those brainwashing methods resonate with you? Anger you? Surprise you? Remind you of a time when your ancestors were tortured for reading and educating themselves? This is something that was skillfully and treacherously outlined with one and only one intent: to ENSURE THE SEPARATION AND CONTROL OF THE BLACK MIND AND BODY (because remember, white people believed the black person had no soul, so the only thing to control was the mind and body)! To make the black man disposable, inadequate, and feminine, while indoctrinating the black woman to not only be independent from the black man, but to be so with pride and dignity. The white man’s dream was that you two remained at odds for hundreds, if not thousands, of years.

My Queen, My Goddess, My Mother of Humanity, please listen when I say, THEY STARTED WITH YOU! They knew how powerful you were (and still are). They knew that you were the key to it all, the divine! They literally said, “if you break the female mother, she will break the offspring in its early years of development and when the offspring is old enough to work, she will deliver it up to you, for her normal female protective tendencies will have been lost in the original breaking process.” THIS IS WHY THE BLACK MAN NEEDS YOU! THIS IS WHY IT IS UP TO YOU! THE MOTHER OF HUMANITY. THE DIVINE BEING THAT GUIDES DARKNESS INTO LIGHT. THAT WAS THE FIRST CHOSEN PORTAL INTO THE EARLTY REALM. Without you, the black man remains systematically and generationally raped. He needs you.

Forgive your Kings, it isn’t their fault.

P.S. The Willie Lynch “Letter” was not actually a letter, it was a speech he gave in 1712 on the James River, after being invited by the colony of Virginia to teach his methods to the colony’s slave owners. The link is posted below if you want to read the whole speech.

Light + Love | Rishi Omkara


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